Relating and relationships

A random list o tings

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1. People change. We can’t recreate what was. That doesn’t mean it wasn’t beautiful or that it can’t be beautiful in different ways moving forward.

2. We can’t own other people. We need to hear and respect their noes, even if they don’t say it directly.

3. We know when we know. The trick is not letting fear or sadness or wanting different try to take us from our knowing.

4. The heart wants what it wants.

5. Overwhelm is overwhelming.

6. Loving with our whole broken open heart is risky, and sometimes very much worth the risk.

7. I don’t want to arrive at a final destination. I want to cross bridge after bridge, becoming more and more myself with each crossing.